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Remember how the brain boxes in the jarah gist forum trashed out our last topic?
Yes they did it again. A very sensitive question was thrown at them and here is what they had to say.

Going back to your ex or starting a new relationship which do you prefer and why?

For me am not Really a Relationship guy oh Madam Jovial but I feel what's in the past should remain in the past,if he is your ex I think something made him that A misunderstanding and you guys had too take a break,So I think starting a new relationship is better than going back to your ex because any way u look at it No matter the plea from him He would always make mistake the same mistake so no matter what I think its best you start up with someone you know nothing about and hopefully you guys work out something together🤗

EGHOSA

There are stages of a relationship and starting a fresh one for me is like just going round and round.

Jack Otong'o

Depends on what actually led to the breakup. When it's not worth it, go back to your ex. Especially when the person is loyal. Dude, loyal partners ain't regular.

*King David*

Well for me I think starting a fresh is better, because you had reasons why that person was an ex, and if you couldn't manage when you were together and broke up,  why do you think going back will be a good idea. But starting a fresh you learnt you lessons, and now you know to thread... DON'T BE AFRAID TO ALWAYS START AFRESH.... FEAR IS A BONDAGE....

King James 👑

I've realized that breakups often cause both parties to learn something from the relationship, just like when a man cheats and then his partner breaks the whole relationship off, it dawns on him how wrongly he has done, and vice versa too
This is it, a new relationship doesn't determine a blissful union, neither does an old one, the joy of jumping into a new relationship alone can seem u cheap and dampen the affair,
I will us this, what makes a relationship perfect is when she/he knows what they want and need' and also putting into consideration what the other person want or need to,
When this is gotten, you give yourself a solid reason for still holding on to that person or nor,
We have seen tons of breakups that still lead to a perfect marriage, cause mistakes doesn't define the union, they only learn from them,
So dearie, going back or getting into a new relationship its not the issue, its not an option u select from, if it is then its like selecting between Volkswagen and Benz

Rather, its a conscious act of knowing who u wanna be with and that could be anybody

*VEEJAY*

I prefer starting a new relationship. Let’s face it, stepping into an old relationship is like going back to a job you quit. The truth is something was wrong the last time. It had to be. You don’t break up for no reason. Magic won’t help you now. The past is the past, and most of the time you can’t get it back. The longer you toy with this not so brilliant idea of getting into something you shouldn’t (AGAIN), the more baggage you are acquiring. A fresh start will help you go forward. Yesterday is history, tomorrow is a mystery, today is a gift of God, which is why we call it the present.

Yahaya Halima

This were the key opinions of some members on our yesterdays topic, of course there's room for improvement.you can also drop your own comment below 

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