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We had a nice time airing our views yesterday on the topic:

BEING INTIMATE WITH YOUR PARTNER IN PUBLIC, RIGHT OR WRONG?

Well I'm not the shy type
I'm actually a very crazy guy but
I don't think it's Necessary
Like I won't do it
I actually care about what goes around people's head at the moment and that's just the kindda person I am.

Chase

It is morally wrong to be intimate with ur  partner in public because people will be watching including kids....what are u then teaching the young ones

Oracle

Its all fun n games until some bad belle will make it a life goal to break y'all up

Czar

Most gals actually see that as something big
I don't even hug in public
God may be watching you in private but you want the angels and saints to see what God has been watching?
Am I making sense somebody?

Chase

When i was young i saw alot of that; those dating couples they are like stop there's a kid here but not knowing they are even learning compare to the ones have been watching in america films😄...  People watching you hugging your partner and pergs means noting; but some kind of public place it depends immorally/morally is trips a sign of affection but i think  is more cool in a more matured looking minded people not inspite of kids......

Increase

I agree with u a little...Doing that in public does not only affects d kids watching it might also affect adults as well....Now think about it this way how about some women who are suffering Emotionally i.e those their husbands have no time for due to their type of work especially those that work in sea How do u want that kind of woman to feel?

Same goes for those guyz who are scared of talking to the opposite sex...seeing that in public may arouse thier sexual desire which sometimes some are not able to control thereby leading to rape especially minors

Oracle

So seeing people kiss turns you on??

Chase

Brother mine, Don't make it sound so scandalous, so kissing turns some people on its not like they kill kittens for a living

February

I love my lover. I don't care if it turns you on. #FreePorn. I don't care about what the children nearby may come off learning from it. Don't they go to weddings? I love my lover and do not hide it.

Osita Chinakwe

So does a person who own a car decide not to drive it around because he doesn't want to hurt the feelings of those who are yet to get one. I believe there's a degree to which show of affections in public has its limit. But it cannot be totally ruled out.

Favour

And u think public showing is the best.....we know u love ur lover Y not go on a private trips.
Nobody is ruling it out...How can u be comparing a car with ur lover

Oracle

A man is held responsible for his behavior : his unhealthy attachment to minors, his being single.
And the woman who cries because of witnessing a public display of affection (PDA) will be sad always then. Her neighbours will not stop being loving because of her.

I may feel like doing it publicly. Not simply to show that I have courage to do so. But because I can't do without kissing her lips for long.

Osita Chinakwe

Aiit
Girls naturally like
guys that drive.
Me am not a driver
My ex told me...
Buh it's not part of the topic

Seriously I'm not supposed to be here
Yall are too serious minded
😁😁

Chase

What about i don't like private trip or my partner don't do private shits.. 

Increase

Then u have to explain Y u love it in public....

Oracle

Smiles.. To me it's not right.
In many ways, it's about control. Intimacy is one of our basest instincts. Control that and you can control the population. We've been taught to feel shame and find it dirty because that's what the society is determined to correct. It has a negative effect on kids and they would love to start practising it.

Yahaya Halima

The way people are constructing grammar i won't mind kissing my girl in public after reading this

Chase

Hmmmm,  and they have never skip "you may kiss your Bride' in front of kids ...  You guys should stop using kids to cover some certain stuff like this

Increase

Yeah some no Sabi kiss seff
There are ways foreigners kiss in public
Bro
To kiss go just dey hungry you

Chase

First of all.
Let's check the authenticity of the relationship

She said PARTNERS, so let's look at it from 2 angles
A married couple is out there 'MAKING OUT' their maturity level should tell u they wont engage in something that's gonna be new than what kids see on TV no matter how hot that romance can produce.. U get me?
Now for 'OUR GENERATION' kind of couples (relationships especially not marriage) ... Know that they can go the extreme only wen they feel there's a need to SHOW OFF what they feel about each other that can't control ... How do I know
There's a flock of bf/gf's in the ICM, all entangled and loveydovey up, now even The shy ladies 'AT THAT TIME ONLY' would allow the wet lips of their dudes rest on the yearning lips of theirs... U get me ?...and if u say there's a child close ??.... Oh please... 'IF OUR GENERATION IS THIS HOT... HOW MUCH MORE THE ONE COMING... 🤦🏿‍♀U KNOW THE REST'

Now let's check the timing of this romance that comes up...

Making out in public is not a conscious act...

2 scenarios I can give you...
1. You about to cash out 5k from yr bank yr babe wants 10k... Now for that goal to be achieved she could kiss u, give u small tangerine romance right there n then weh go scatter yah head... U sef go loose guard... Lol
Now that's sweet and u guys didn't act it..  U get me ?

2. U stare at a ladies bumbum while in d mall, yr babe doesn't see u, and then u look at yr babe again, and sees how beautiful she is even tho she ain't got that big an ass u just saw....

U could get closer to her bro, kiss her, tap her bum, and whisper to her I wouldn't exchange u for even Beyonce (now this leads to a romance ☺🤤😍)

Lemme stop here....
In conclusion...
Be sure of how much u are really gonna hold her down whom u be with, when u do, and u know u ain't taking a slut for shopping ... Ladies n gents...
Even there where u kiss, people who understands love can tell that this couple ? They really do love each other from the bottom...
That's not corruption, Thats Care, Love, Joy Of Ownership...

Pleas niggas try tapping her bum, its a sweet feeling😎😋

VEEJAY

I feel kissing ur partner in public is not bad..nobody cares..first of all..kids nowadays bcom bad..nobody knows how..1 way or d oda..they get to know alot about sexual contents...altho We r in a society were its seen as copy copy frm whites🤣...bt nobody actually cares..no mata d correction..pipo still rape..n do all evil

Jon Kent

I believe they're are "types of kisses" that are acceptable in public. People who are intimate in public should be really connected and have a future together. We don't want to be seeing young couples kissing everywhere when it's not a telenovela serie. There's a limit to everything. And besides this intimacy thingy cannot be more than a kiss except people with fairly damaged brains have sex in public.

Sean

Looking at it from a different perspective. I think its romantic for married couples and its a thing to be ashamed of for lovers(not married).

Yahaya Halima

Well at night if m with my girl
I'd deep my hands in her bra ND fold up
Tbh that's the highest sin I can commit in public
Nobody saw me

Chase

Yea.. For married couple but we are in Nigerian they would never try it on public's all have ever growup to meet,  and i wonder🤔,  they produce kids regularly every 9months without breaks🙆‍♂!!   And the mans face we look like there's noting happening within them

Increase

I wonder how they do it
Maybe the wife would be reading magazine
Or the hubby would cover her face with pillow
That's why most of them don't live long..

Chase

😀.. Not all married couples. Couples in Lagos are not shy to kiss and hug in public.  21 century married couples generally, are not shy of showcasing intimacy in public.

Yahaya Halima.

As for me getting intimate in public is not right
Ther are other ways of letting ur partner kw abt your love
Ther are children ourt ther dat anything they see they want to do

AlasaJay

We all knw love is swt bt doing it in front of kids is bad because dey cn start practicing it,ave seen a baby girl trying to force a boy child's head into her Virginia while he ws as sleep u might think kissing Ur hubby in public is gud bt ure actually destroying dem. Do it in private.

Sharon

I was young when I watched and loved Diego and Paloma. Still I need practised kissing. Upon all the weddings I Don attend sef.

Osita Chinakwe

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