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Our yesterday topic was

What advice would you give your best friend who’s about to marry your ex??

This is a very tricky question,
a lot of persons had  have one or two things to say about it and one thing is certain, opinions, perspectives and ideologies differs from one person to another, so we had  to select the different views of our Jarah Gist Forum members


When it comes to issue of relationships there is preference... I might feel my ex is not Good for me  but it doesn't mean she is not Good for another person... What matters most is Love and understanding between the two of them.... One man meat is another man poison,
The truth is that most people in Nigeria see their Ex as Enemies that is Y wenever u mention the word *EX* they think it is synonymous with hatred...

By GABRIEL

Well everything happens for a reason. I won't say because it didn't work for me, it won't work for her. "Love" is incredible. My best advice for her would be to be prayerful, patient and be a loving wife.
This thing called "love" is very powerful. I'll tell her the dos and don'ts of my ex. As my best friend she would have seen the way my ex treated me and still went ahead to say "I do". I won't want her to suffer. So I'll help her prevent it by giving her the best advice I can. And patiently wait for my " Mr Right
There's a difference between endurance, love and patience. Making it work is called endurance. Standing by him is called love. Praying for a future together is called patience. If you are trying your best and its not good enough, my dear run for your life. If you say you'll still stay in the relationship were you aren't appreciated or loved and you die, that man/woman will pass your grave with countless women/men and continue living his life. So why not leave and wait for someone better. At least you'll just accept it as fate.

By YAHAYA  HALIMA



Marriage is a lifetime commitment and not really knowing who you're going to marry is just a step closer to a quicksand. Prayer is good but can we just be realistic most times- You see something bad in your fiancé that you really know prayer can't even change😂 but you still stay "patience". Patience is in no way synonymous to unhappiness. The pressure of marriage is societal and also from family. Marry when you're sure and prepared

By SEAN

This were the key opinions of some members on our yesterdays topic, of course there's room for improvement

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